Dr. Eboni Green
April 5, 2025
Helping someone age in place is a rewarding but challenging experience that requires intention and care on your part. Whether you’re new to caregiving or just looking for practical tips, here are five great ways you can support a loved one aging in place.
The first and most important step is communication. Ask your loved one how they feel about their current living situation. What do they enjoy about their home? Are there things they’d like to adjust to make life easier or more comfortable? Listening to their concerns and preferences ensures they remain an active part of the decision-making process. It also helps your loved one feel seen and heard during a time that can seem rather lonely and uncertain.
Your loved one will probably need a few home modifications in order to safely and comfortably live there for the long term. Focus on these important changes:
Consider your loved one’s mobility and health needs when making changes. A safer home means peace of mind for both you and them.
Everyday tasks become more challenging with age, but someone aging in place doesn’t have the convenience of a maintenance crew that nursing homes or hospice centers have. It’s recommended to hire weekly cleaners, but you can also help out with a few key chores.
For example, you can take care of grocery shopping, meal prep, or yard work. If your loved one still drives, you can detail their car at home so it never gets too cluttered. Overall, you can show your support by consistently helping with tasks that may feel overwhelming to them.
Maintaining connections is critical for physical and mental well-being, but this becomes harder with age, especially without a community nearby. Since your loved one is at home, they don’t have the convenience of living with other people their age.
Encourage them to stay socially active by joining community groups, attending local events, or even catching up with friends over video calls. If mobility is an issue, offer to drive them to gatherings or invite friends over to spend time together.
The healthcare system is overwhelming in and of itself, and it can feel even more so as medical needs increase. Help your loved one organize doctor’s appointments, manage medications, and understand treatment options. Be present at appointments when possible, to take notes and ask questions. Acting as their advocate ensures they receive the best care and stay informed about their health.
Supporting a loved one aging in place might feel challenging at times, but remember that you’re doing important work to make their life fulfilling and manageable. With these five strategies, you have practical ways to make their aging-in-place experience positive.
